12/22/15

better than before

For a portion of this last month I spent a great deal of my time feeling very sad for myself. I spent a lot of time blaming myself for the problems that were not entirely my fault, and looking for ways to "fix" myself to be better for others. But let me tell you something:

There is nothing more freeing than accepting that every bad thing is not your fault. You cannot always be to blame when someone decides to walk away. 

And sometimes, even if you don't see it at first, it's a real blessing.

A month ago I thought I was never going to be okay again without you by my side.

Today, I feel like I'm my own person again. So thank you for making me everything I now swear I'll never be again. 

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